“So how do you know when you’re losing yourself in a relationship and giving too much?”
“When you don’t think about yourself. You have things you want to do with you life but you don’t do them because you’re thinking about the other person’s needs. I’ve noticed that givers attract people that come back for more.”
“The givers match with the takers?”
“Yeah. My grandmother was a giver but she knew how to draw the line. Age gives you the wisdom for that.”