“I’m originally from Iowa but I’ve moved around a lot because I get bored easily. I try not to grow roots and push myself to go outside my comfort zone. I live simply; that’s what my boyfriend has taught me how to do. He lives in San Diego on his friend’s couch and when he’s not working he’s here.”
“What kind of work does he do?”
“He’s a navy seal.”
“Whoa.”
“Really cool. He’s deployed at the moment, and I don’t have tabs on where he is because he can’t share that, but he’ll be back in September.”
“How do you emotionally manage that distance?”
“My dad traveled a lot when I was young and my mom was super strong. She had 7 kids to take care of but they’re just as in love now as they were when I was watching her cope with him being away. As long as you have that love you can get through anything.” 

“This is his 2nd deployment and this time has been a lot easier than the 1st. The 1st time I was a hot mess.”
“Are you more secure in your relationship or more secure in yourself?”
“Both.”
“Any advice on how to connect with your center?”
“Always put yourself out there and go for what you want. Live your dream. That’s your life’s work. That’s what’s gonna make you happy. I’m still working towards it but I feel myself getting closer.”